8/03/2009 12:18:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
As I watch through my window... I see the very gloomy sky... I feel the cold weather... i can hear the raindrops falling from the sky...
But despite of a sad and gloomy day... I feel better, thinking of the things that I have done, moving on and not looking back, achieving my goals and learning the art of acceptance. I can say that I am Renewed.
5/09/2009 07:41:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
People tend to get bitter everytime they lost the love that once they had. We tend to put hatred on it and ask ourselves "What have I done?" We become weak, start being sarcastic, and somehow lost the ability to love. We isolate ourselves and trying to find another comfort zone.
But looking on the brighter side. Instead of killing ourselves from emotional breakdown. Let go of things that aren't meant for you to have.
A friend once sent me a very inspiring message. It says:
"You should be bitter and don't be full of hatred when the one you love does not love u the way you love him. Ask, listen and let go. Don't force youself to understand when you can't, to fight hard when obviously its over and to play deaf to the nagging truth that what you've had doesn't work and wont work anymore...
Say this instead
I had loved you more than you think I would, but I feel sorry that you've lost your chance to be loved more that you would ever feel in your life after this."
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3/25/2009 07:39:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
A friend once asked me...
If I had any regrets on something that I've done in the past... that I could be better today..
I answered..
"I don't regret any decision I made and any mistakes that i could have corrected in the past.. Everything happens for a reason.. Life isn't all about destiny.. It is always a Yes or No.. Now or Never... It is a choice.."
There's always a point.. where we always reminisce the past and think of something we could have done that would make us better today... But looking on the brighter side, we always look forward and accept that things really happen for a reason... But the good thing is ... we tried everything to make it better prior to moving on...
Happiness can be achieved once we accept things that made in the past... make us what we are today to be better... happy and fulfilled...
Sometimes... its not what we want that can make us happy... Its what's not and acceptance..
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"Many people have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.