12/22/2008 09:49:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
12/21/2008 12:16:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
For the past few years I've been out of the track. I made myself a loner. Having limited friends and having no time to socialize and explore the outside world of my Room and work make me realize that I missed a lot. But lately I am going back to normal life, I'm starting to get back to the track whom i missed for the past 4 years.
Thanks to Poh for having a lot of patient on me, for making me speak and not just stay in silence, for letting me explore things that theres more to life outside the four walls of my room and for the love that makes me go back to where I belong.
For now... am happy...
and
still adjusting to the things that I have missed...
^_~ Mhaldito~
12/11/2008 03:27:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
Last week.. Wella (Author of Thinking Pen), my colleague, has been asking me if what is my point of view about same sex marriage. Coz she is composing a blog about it. ( please visit her site to read her entry about same sex marriage )
I told her...
"I am not a believer in marriages (not just for same sex marriage but for marriage as a whole)... I believe in commitment and how to oblige on it.. It is not necessary to be married in order for your love be perfected.."
Love can be perfected by two people working a strong relationship... It is the foundation of trust that that you gain and earn on both sides... It is a bridge of communication for two people working together as one...
I have a college/close friend who is having a problem with marriage... her partner has been married before and got kids... They've been together for years and yet she still want to be married with her partner... She is having a problem knowing that his partner is not yet annulled with his previous wife... She is afraid that one day she might loose her partner just because they're not married and they can't be recognized as a family ( luckily they got a very cute son )...
I asked her...
"Do you love him?"
and she said... "Yes, I do..." I asked again...
"Does he love you?"
and she answered... "Yeah, he's been telling me that and showing it..."
I then asked her a follow-up question...
"Then... Whats the problem?"
she just stared at me and cried... and then I told her...
"Do not be afraid just because you both are not married... Marriage is just papers.. you sign them and be recognized... But what's important is the commitment that you both vowed to each other... The love that you shared through all these years..."
Do not think of marriage as a lacking peice in the puzzle that makes your relationship perfect... Don't make your life more complicated just because of that...
You both are happy...
Be contented on what you have...
The most important is you have HIM...
and he has YOU..."
....
I was reading at Wella's entry ( and got permission to post a paragraph of it.. ).. And I told her... "this is for you".... and then post it on our IM
Marriage is a sacred and a legal vow of commitment, but we can also love without having to go through a sacred ceremony. If our law demanded to limit marriage to a man and a woman, why bother tying the knot when we can show love other than exchanging I dos? There are a lot of ways to show our love and it has nothing to do with blotting our decrees much more with regulations than would make it more imperfect.
12/07/2008 09:00:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
For 10 months in the company that i am currently working. Today is the first time that we had Team Lunch together with my Supervisor, Teammates and our Wavemate QE. It was really fun. We had our Team Lunch after shift @
Chika-an sa Cebu Restaurant located at
SM Northwing.
A lot of issues has been happenning internally on the team but still we manage to give it a very exciting and happy group as we ate... talk... ate... talk and ate...
We had our exchange gift and have a sort of bonding moments together with the team that we rarely do it for the past 10 months... luckily I got 2 ArtWork Shirts ( as what is stated in my wishlist )...
After lunch we had a small talk and strolling around the mall and ending up riding bumper inside Bibo. Honestly it is my first time to ride and drive a bumper... After the experience i find myself laughing... smiling... perspiring and saying... "That was a Stress Reliever!!!"... Yeah it is indeed a stress reliever... For a moment I forgot those things that bugs in my head and it was replaced with enjoyment, fun, and have more time to laugh, talk and exchange jokes with my colleague/friends...
After the bonding moment with the team... I realized that eventhough we had conflicts with our colleague at work... we still find them a friend... who helps u to be stronger because of the gap that both of u make...
Looking forward for more bonding moment with the team..
Weeeeeeeeeeeee~~~~!!!
12/06/2008 12:56:00 AM |
Author: Mhaldito~
From the moment I heard this song it really keeps playing in my head most of the time. Maybe because the lyrics of the song and its rendition really sounds good to my ears or the impact of the melody of the song to its lyrics and music. Well.. this is the line that really stuck me the moment I heard this song..
"I'm not calling for a second chance
I'm screaming at the top of my voice
Give me reason, but don't give me choice
Cause I'll just make the same mistake again"
--oOo--
SAME MISTAKE
cover by BOYCE AVENUE
So while I'm turning in my sheets
And once again I cannot sleep
Walk out the door and up the street
Look at the stars beneath my feet
Remember rights that I did wrong
So here I go
uhuuuu uhuuuu uhuuuu
And so I sent some men to fight
And one came back at dead of night
Said he'd seen my enemy
Said he looked just like me
So I set out to cut myself
And here I go
uhuuuu uhuuuu uhuuuu
I'm not calling for a second chance
I'm screaming at the top of my voice
Give me reason, but don't give me choice
Cause I'll just make the same mistake again
uhuuuu uhuuuu uhuuuu
And maybe someday we will meet
And maybe talk but not just speak
Don't buy the promises cause
There are no promises I keep
and my reflection troubles me
So here I go
I'm not calling for a second chance
I'm screaming at the top of my voice
Give me reason, but don't give me choice
Cause I'll just make the same mistake
I'm not calling for a second chance
I'm screaming at the top of my voice
Give me reason, but don't give me choice
Cause I'll just make the same mistake again
12/05/2008 12:24:00 AM |
Author: Mhaldito~
-Robert Fulghum
--oOo--
TWILIGHT
Twilight tells the story of 17-year-old Bella Swan who moves to the small town of Forks, Washington to live with her father, and becomes drawn to Edward Cullen, a pale, mysterious classmate who seems determined to push her away. But neither can deny the attraction that pulls them together...even when Edward confides that he and his family are vampires. Their unorthodox romance puts her in physical danger when Edward's nemesis comes to town and sets his sights on Bella.
NEW MOON
For Bella Swan, there is one thing more important than life itself: Edward Cullen. But being in love with a vampire is even more dangerous than Bella could ever have imagined. Edward has already rescued Bella from the clutches of one evil vampire, but now, as their daring relationship threatens all that is near and dear to them, they realize their troubles may be just beginning...
ECLIPSE
As Seattle is ravaged by a string of mysterious killings and a malicious vampire continues her quest for revenge, Bella once again finds herself surrounded by danger. In the midst of it all, she is forced to choose between her love for Edward and her friendship with Jacob—knowing that her decision has the potential to ignite the ageless struggle between vampire and werewolf. With her graduation quickly approaching, Bella has one more decision to make: life or death. But which is which?
BREAKING DAWN
Breaking Dawn, is a reference to the beginning of Bella's life as a vampire. The cover is a metaphor for Bella's progression throughout the entire saga; she began as the physically weakest player on the board, the pawn, but ended up the strongest, the queen." The plays The Merchant of Venice and A Midsummer Night's Dream both influenced Breaking Dawn. Originally, Meyer wrote a book titled Forever Dawn, which was a direct sequel to Twilight. While the basic storyline stayed the same, Forever Dawn was narrated completely from Bella's point of view, the werewolves and Jacob were "only sketchily developed", Victoria and Laurent were both alive, and there was an epilogue.
--oOo--
MIDNIGHT SUN (Edward's Version of Twilight)
( still under construction... )
12/04/2008 11:29:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
For the past few months I've been hearing these Author's Vampire Saga everywhere. Even my online gamer friends were addicted to it. This is actually one of the hottest topic in our Forums ( i-lounge ) since it has been published. Well I am really not into these kind of books but when the movie of the first series, Twilight, has been brought to the silverscreen a lot of people were addicted to it. (duh... even my officemates)...
After that, curiosity makes me say
"What's in these book/movie that made them crazy?"
I researched in the internet just to know the story or background before reading the book. Well, not bad at all It actually make me excite to read since most of the vampire stories are set in Transylvania (somewhere in Central Europe, now called Romania), where Vampire stories started; But for Stephenie Meyer's version of vampire stories... It is set in the US, in the Olympic Peninsula in Washington State where the most rainfall in the US happens... And most of the people call this series as the Modern Day Vampire Storie...
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...
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After reading stuff in Google about Twilight and its Series.. I went back to the Forum ( i-lounge ), in "Twilight" thread where most of the members discuss on the book and on the movie; Luckily they uploaded the e-book of the four books.. ( Twilight, New Moon, Eclipse and Breaking Dawn )
On my next post (following to this entry I will be posting the link where to download the e-book.. I already uploaded it in Mediafire )
12/01/2008 11:32:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
I find these facts interesting.. This has been a repost from socyberty.com Hope this facts can help you and lead you to a better and happy relationship.
Woooott!! ~~~
- Love each other. The simplest but the most effective way of maintaining a good relationship is just to love each other. What is it in a relationship if there is no love, is it just lust from the very beginning?
- Don't Lie. In any relationship, there should always be trust between the couple or else all will end up in chaos. We should always remember that there is no secret that can't be revealed, sooner or later you'll just find out that you are just cheating and putting yourself into shame.
- Keep Good Communication. Personally I can say that good communication between couples should highly be done because it is the only way they can keep in touch; it is the only way(especially for distant relationships) to keep track of the feelings and emotions of the partners.
- Stay Sweet. Although you may have faced some serious problems in your relationship, you should at least never lose your sweetness. Many problems occur when one of the couple cannot just be humble enough to accept that he or she is wrong.
- After facing a fight with each other just forgive and forget. As humans, we can never avoid misunderstandings, because it is just the effect of our imperfections in life. But with that imperfection comes perfection because it is with that misunderstanding that the couple will know each other more.
- Never talk about breakup. If you don't want breakups then why talk about it in the first place. Just talking about the possibilities of a breakup will leave an impression to your partner that you don't love him/her sincerely or you are just giving him/her the reason to quit your relationship.
- If you are really sorry, mean it! The word sorry is just so common among men. Before planning on cheating on your partner, why not think again about the consequences you gonna end up facing.
- Don't compare your past and present. You should not just compare your past to the present because the setting is completely different. You cannot just compare the picture coming out from a 'black and white television' with a 'digital flat screen television' because they are not of the same level.
- Don't talk about your past relationships. Sticking to what have happened in the past will just give you hard time of moving on. You will never notice how your present partner loves you if ever you keep on thinking of your ex.
- Give and take process. It is not always that one should be in charge of the other.
- Be more sensitive of the feelings of your partner. It is not just enough to ask him/her about his/her feelings because most of the time he/she will hide true feelings. They will not just tell you in the sense that they don't want you to get hurt also.
- When you had a fight, don't let the day pass without being fine. The longer you stay in a fight, the more time you need for reconciliation. Let us just remember that the more you let someone dying wait, the less chance of survival and same is true with love.
- Don't be the perfect one, be the right one. Are you tired of being somebody else just to please your partner? You never need to do that in the first place. If you are really loved by your partner then he/she should accept you no matter who you are.
- Swallow your pride. As I said earlier, relationships will never work unless one of the couple will be humble enough to lower himself/herself down even though he/she knows that he/she is not really the fault of the fight.
- Among any other celebration, never forget to remember anniversaries or monthsaries. It is already very common among any other couples to be fighting over because one of them actually forgot to remember their anniversary. It is just perfectly understandable for someone to forget but whenever you try to explain to your partner just get it straight to the point. Just don't tell him/her that you had a stomach problem that's why you were not able to attend, oh come on it's just so highscool.
12/01/2008 09:20:00 PM |
Author: Mhaldito~
~ ~ o o O o o ~ ~
The Way You Make Me Feel
You make me feel special,
You make me feel new,
You make me feel loved,
With everything you do.
You hold me close when I am sad.
You wipe the tears from my face.
Every time we are together,
It seems like the perfect place.
My eyes light up when you enter a room.
I smile when we are together.
No matter how bad things are,
You always make them better.
I love the way you kiss me,
The way you hold me tight.
I love the way you touch me,
I could be with you all night.
I love the way you can make me laugh
For absolutely no reason at all.
I love how no matter what I do,
You will be there to catch me when I fall.
I just want you to know,
That even though we sometimes fight,
I will always love you!
No matter what, day or night.
- Amanda Standridge -
A White or Dirty White Chuck Taylor Shoes
New Jacket ( the green one from ArtWork )
Pizza and Pasta
A lot of Christmas Greetings
Love
